My mother was in her late 80s when she suffered her last stroke. This time it was not a mini stroke but a pretty lethal one. By then Mom's memory was obviously having problems as she also had been diagnosed with Alzheimer's related dementia disorder. So, to make sure caregivers understand what to expect with a stroke, I'd like to provide the following information.
Stroke is the term used to describe the loss or change in neurological function caused by sudden blockage or rupture of an artery of the brain. Damage to brain tissues can be temporary or permanent. Symptoms of stroke may appear suddenly or gradually. Transient ischemic attacks (TIAs), also referred to as “little strokes”, are strong indicators of an impending stroke. TIAs occur when a blood clot briefly clogs an artery, blocking part of the brain from receiving the blood it needs. Symptoms/Signs of Transient Ischemic Attack
q Sudden temporary weakness, clumsiness, or loss of feeling in the face, leg, arm, or leg on one side of the body.
q Sudden, temporary blindness, or dimming or double vision.
q Dizziness.
q Staggering.
q Loss of speech, slurred speech, trouble talking or understanding speech, particularly with weakness on right side.
q Mental confusion.
Most TIA symptoms occur and disappear quickly, usually in less than 5 minutes. Occasionally symptoms last several hours, but never over 24 hours. The short duration of symptoms and the lack of permanent damage are the main differences between TIA and strokes. The cause of a stroke determines treatment. Aspirin and medications for depression and heart disease are often indicated for stroke recoveries. Stroke changes the rules of daily life for individuals. The consequences and complexity of a stroke cause frustration for everyone concerned. Recovery from a stroke depends on the amount of permanent brain damage and rehabilitation efforts. Rehabilitation can help a stroke recovery regain function, adjust to changes, and prevent another stroke.
At first, when loved ones make rapid improvement, relatives expect full recovery. For example, a daughter said, “At the rate Dad was improving, I thought he would be his old self again.” Later, when the rate of progress slows, some family members believe it is because the client wants to be “taken care of.” They often feel problems are out of proportion to the stroke. In fact, I heard this just today from a long distance family member. Stroke affects each person differently. For example, two people the same age, sex, and physical condition, which have a stroke on the same side of the brain, may experience entirely different neurological changes. Recovery and rehabilitation depend on a large extent on the location and amount of brain damage.
Stroke recoveries commonly experience problems in the following areas: motor functions, sensation, vision, communication, automatic function, cognition, and emotional expression. Stroke recoverees often lose the ability to perceive or conceptualize their environment accurately. They may have difficulty understanding abstract ideas, as well as reality. The once carefully groomed, self-sufficient, and kind person may become sloppy, demanding and rude. It may seem as though a loved one has been transformed into a stranger.
Dramatic mood swings are common. A recoveree may laugh and then cry for no reason. The emotion displayed may not reflect mood. For example, a person who cries spontaneously may not, in fact, be sad. To determine the person’s mood, it may be helpful to ask how he or she is feeling. Depression is commonly experienced by stroke recoverees. When a recoveree cannot live up to demands to be more independent, responsible, and helpful, depression may deepen. Family members, therapists, and providers sometimes expect performance and behaviors beyond a recoveree’s capabilities. It is important to remember that a recoveree may be more impaired than appearance suggests.
Recoverees of a stroke experience unexpected bursts or loss of energy. A person may be able to dress independently on Monday, but need help on Tuesday. This problem is not caused by laziness and usually does not represent a change in health. Fluctuating moods and energy levels affect the level of performance.
Many may fail to recognize pangs of hunger, forget they just ate, or tell relatives you are not feeding them. Poor control of muscles of the face, tongue, and throat may cause drooling and difficulty in swallowing. Food may be stored in the cheek. These factors increase the risk of choking. The effects of stroke, combined with wearing dentures, reduce the ability to taste. Poor fitting dentures pose a serious problem because recoverees may not feel the pain of pressure areas. Use of the non dominant hand to eat, plus vision problems, causes food spillage and feelings of distress.
As a caregiver, you need to maintain a positive attitude. For example, a recoveree may put clothes on wrong-side out. This may be humorous to you, but embarrassing to the client. Respond in a manner that protects the person’s dignity and self-esteem.
Communicating with a stroke recoveree may be difficult, particularly if the person suffers from aphasia (word finding problems). Other barriers to communication are poor hearing and eyesight, mental confusion, depression, and withdrawal. Recoverees may turn away or respond without turning when people talk to them on their affected side. They may appear to ignore the speaker and be uninterested in what is happening around them. They may recall only bits of information from what they have seen or heard. Communicating with recoverees is important because it reduces their feelings of isolation and depression. What to do as a family member? At the minimum demand that the doctor refer your loved one to a neurologist and exercise patience. I have personally seen clients with very good outcomes following a good rehabilitation experience.
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